joe the parking-lot guy
Saturday, June 19, 2010 at 8:52PM Joe the parking-lot guy. A few years ago I met this guy in a parking-lot. I promise it's not as sordid as it sounds. He approached me outside, I was waiting for a friend who was saying his goodbyes, and he asked me if I had a smoke. I told him I didn't and then I made some comment about a shirt he was wearing. I believe it was a Pantera shirt. Joe looked rough and was fitting the stereotype of a guy who was still living in the 90s. He had a bandanna around his forehead, wore a black leather jacket with studs, hard-rock t-shirt as evidenced by his support of metal band Pantera and he had shredded jeans. I was probably wearing a button down shirt and some jeans or some other preppy ensemble. And then somehow we were talking about bands we both loved and we discovered we had some mutual friends with one another. He knew a guy who knew the guy I was waiting on. So we exchanged numbers and for about a year we'd hang out off and on at coffee shops talking about bands we enjoyed. It wasn't a great friendship, but it wasn't strange or weird. It was as if we both knew the limits of this friendship and recognized that this wasn't a well that was deep, but we were both ok with that. I lost touch with him at some point and that was that. Joe the parking-lot guy was out of my life. It's interesting how people fall in and out of your lives.
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