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    Monday
    01Mar2010

    Old Friends

    There is something very enjoyable about returning to an author that you have not read in a long time. It is similar to meeting an old friend with whom you have not seen for a long time.  I was at the book-store with a good friend of mine and we agreed that meeting more often for coffee would be a good thing. Because the two of us seem to go months on end without meeting each other (scheduling, life, general busyness, etc.), we decided that we needed some motivation. As we were browsing the aisles of the Fiction/Literature section of the book-store, Paul paused at Timothy Findley. "I've heard good things about him, but I've never read anything from him." Done.

    We've set ourselves a goal that in 1 month we'll have finished reading the same book Not Wanted on the Voyage and will then meet up to discuss. A one on one book club so to speak. 

    First impressions: a surreal fantastical world where common expectations of familiar Biblical stories are re-shaped. For example: Timothy has introduced a talking Unicorn into this magical-realist landscape, and yet we learn that Unicorns are only slightly larger than a dog. The characters are rich, particularly Mrs. Noyes, Noah's wife. She is a drunk who has issues when it comes to Dr. Noah Noyes religious obsession. And Yaweh is an old cantankerous curmudgeon who with his angels travels under the guise of a circus. My favourite character though would be Motyll, an elderly cat through which much of the story seems to be interpreted. An interesting choice to view the world of Noah through the eyes of various creatures and mythical beasts. Quite bizarre and delightful all at once. 

    Speaking of delightful things: my good friend Karen is visiting right now from New Hampshire and I am loving every second of it. We've mostly been sitting around and catching up. As I told her yesterday, we're attempting to cram everything we would be doing if we lived in the same city, into a 4 day visit: getting drunk, dinner, movies, bad-tv marathons. We only knew each other for a year but we managed to create a very strong friendship. It is nice knowing that even though we have not seen each other in two years, that we can just fall right back into a friendship and pick up where we left off. The internet and telephone help some but nothing beats sitting down next to your friend and giggling over The Golden Girls. 

    Alice in Wonderland later today. I am sure a review will go up shortly. Cheers. 

    Saturday
    27Feb2010

    Things That are Good

    • Catching up with friends and eating out, good times Paul
    • Graphic Novels/Manga
    • March
    • Sonic for DS
    • Timothy Findley novels

    Things That are Not so Good 

    • Waking up at 5 & 6 a.m. for work
    • Over-attentive waiters who crowd you while eating
    • Snow in March
    • Olympics, kind of tired of it all, ready for it to be over so that I can talk about something else other than the latest medal or whatever.

    Sunday
    21Feb2010

    What is it about home remedies that every mother insists upon when a child becomes ill in some way? I was having trouble breathing yesterday evening and I informed my mother of this and she told me what to do. Take this foul smelling food and mash it up into a paste, and then proceed to place that paste around your throat.

    Something about things that look, taste, & smell disgusting that mothers feel the need to apply to their children when they are under the weather. I refused treatment and suffered until I passed out. There are some things I refuse to put on my face. 

    Wednesday
    17Feb2010

    You know what's amazing? When you're panicking and you're worried about something, it's driving you crazy and you want to just resolve the situation and you get to that special moment....AHA! You know what you're going to write, the thesis has been set, you have ideas forming, you aren't worried and now you find yourself in the zone. You write like mad because you need to get all your thoughts down. That is what happened this morning and afternoon. Feels good to accomplish something ahead of time for a change and not to worry about it. Huzzah for me and for that AHA moment. 

    Sunday
    14Feb2010

    I was talking on the phone with a friend earlier today and she made a comment about an opinion I held regarding a certain issue: "I think the Gaurav from a few years ago would tell the Gaurav from 2010 that he's crazy." 

    I could not help but laugh at myself. It is interesting how much may change in the course of a few years. I wonder what 2007 Gaurav would tell 2010 Gaurav, or maybe I should reverse that, after all hindsight is 20/20.

    Tuesday
    02Feb2010

    A Pleasant Miscellany 

    Trying to figure out how to enjoy the small things in life. Here are just a few of the small things that I appreciate and make getting through this rough winter a bit easier.  

    • Tea - I've started to sample more tea: black, white, green. So many different flavors to enjoy. 
    • Fantasy Novels - For a while I stopped reading from this genre. This past autumn and over Christmas break I rediscovered how much I enjoy an adventurous tale about thieves, orcs, wizards and other cool fantasy characters trying to battle one another and take over the world.
    • Internet - How fucking awesome is this thing. I mean think about how sweet it is. All this information at your fingertips. And of course the free music, film, television, & various other media. Blogs, I mean come on...blogs like this just fucking rock the boat. Where would we be without the internet. It's hard to imagine, and kind of weird too, so much apart of our lives. 
    • My Brown Leather Belt - I bought this a few years ago at the Gap and it has this nice weathered and broken leather look to it. I wear it all the time, you should check it out the next time you see me, it's a pretty sweet belt. Yep, I like it. 
    • Comics & Graphic Novels - Let's face it, V for Vendetta, The Watchmen, Sandman, The Dark Knight, I could go on and on. Comics rock and so do large graphic novels and anthologies that go on for hundreds of pages. Something very satisfying and fulfilling about consuming a large graphic novel. 
    Sunday
    31Jan2010

    All I did today was watch Season 4 of The West Wing. Body is still giving off fumes from the night before, ugh Black Label is such a dangerous drink to consume. I think I'll go consider some sleep.

    Saturday
    23Jan2010

    Blue Skies / White Stripes / Fairy-Tales

    The past few days have been pleasant. While I am still working long hours at both university and at the hotel, the weather has made all of the difference. An individual can only take so much grey and I find the sunshine and blue skies that we've had recently has been lifting my spirits.

    There is something about a blue sky that makes you pop some ear-buds and listen to some new music. I recently re-discovered the White Stripes and I find myself singing and crooning along with Jack & Meg. 

    Reading Jane Yolen's 12 Impossible Things Before Breakfast a collection I find myself smiling in wonder. My only other experience of Jane Yolen was in a class I took two years ago: Feminist Rewritings of Fairy Tales. I read Briar Rose a rewriting of the Sleep Beauty fairy tale blended with a story of the holocaust. While you might raise your brows and think, "That seems a rather odd combination to put together.", it somehow works. Jane Yolen has a way of taking common stories, fairy-tales, myths, and transforming them. 

    While many of her novels and short stories focus on young women protagonists, I find her more concerned with the ways in which we tell stories to children and young adults. Examining "traditional" fairy-tales is the perfect place to begin. Impossible Things is a great place to start if you're thinking of reading her work, a collection of short stories that take famous novels and works by other authors and transforms them into something new. What I most enjoy is how she takes a character that people are familiar with: Wendy from Peter Pan, Alice from Wonderland, or Sleeping Beauty and removes that sappy fog that surrounds those texts and creates a character that would react more naturally. It could be suggested that in making these texts more "real" that sense of fantasy and wonder are lost, but I disagree with that sentiment.

    Cheers. 

    Friday
    22Jan2010

    Today will be a good day. I'm tired of waking up and feeling like shit. Willing it to happen. Here we go.

    Monday
    18Jan2010

    Every once in a while you will meet someone who is a real character. What I mean by this is that they have a certain something, their personality, that jumps at you like a brick striking you in the face. These individuals leave a lasting impression, you carry them with you wherever you go. 

    A couple of months ago a lady stayed here at the hotel and she was just such a character. She returned again this afternoon for another stay and was just as vibrant and memorable as the previous time. 

    She is from South Africa and of Indian descent. She has a British accent and is 75 years old. She has spent her life teaching Art & Drama here in Canada at the university level. I was teased quite a bit today. The last time she had stayed with us here at the hotel she had told me that she expected some Indian foods from my mother. I assumed that she was joking in this regard, boy was I wrong. 

    The first thing she did when she walked into the door this afternoon was to inquire if I had remembered to bring the Indian curry I had promised her. I was socializing with a good friend of mine and she was witness to this entire ordeal. In a mock-angry tone she chided me the way a grandmother or aunt would. This woman is annoying, terrifying, and entrancing all at once. You're not sure if you should throw her out your house or welcome her into your heart. Maybe the latter. 

    She talks in the most British of British ways, the stereotype of a "grand old dame" comes to mind. She's unabashed in her opinions about politics, society, etc. Turning to my friend she asked her what her name was? Faith answered and this woman said, "What a lovely name. You're not a quaker are you?" Some chuckling and then I asked her what should would have said if Faith had answered yes. "I would have had some other things to say to her then." 

    Only a character like her can be this semi-bigoted and not really care. Some people really do know how to make their mark when they meet people. Cheers. 

    Wednesday
    13Jan2010

    Things I've Overheard Recently

    "Man is it cold outside. Global-warming is such a crock of shit." (Guy at Starbucks/Chapters Indigo)

    "That's exactly the type of thing I'd expect an atheist to say. If there is no God, then how do you explain Obama being in office?" (Guy in MCC @ Brock University)

    "Conley loves his dog, he talks non-stop about him, absolutely and totally loves him." / "What's his dog's name?" / "I don't know...but talks about him all the time. I love Conley so much." (Two girls in Glenridge @ Brock University)

    "That part of Brock is ugly, but this part is new. It's less ugly." (Guy talking to another guy while walking towards the Plaza @ Brock University)

    Sunday
    10Jan2010

    The days are getting longer, this much science tells us. Yet darkness arrives so early here in the winter. It makes the day go by much too quickly. I blink and its 4pm and the sun is setting. *sigh.

    Sunday
    06Dec2009

    Finishing up my last formal paper of this year. I have no real right to complain considering how much work Erin is doing, so I should just suck it up, but that doesn't change how much I hate this paper. A few exams to study for after this, will blog more soon, I promise my few and faithful readers. 

    Tuesday
    01Dec2009

    Walking back to my car after class this morning I passed by a young lady on a cell phone and this is what I overhear: "I have no life here, I hate it."

    A very sad thing to hear on a University campus. 

    Monday
    30Nov2009

    Emi came over this weekend for a relaxing couch and slouch movie and she gave me a belated birthday greeting card. Emi being Emi modified it a bit with some help from my facebook profile. Warning: the image you are about to see is both amazing and terrifying, you have been warned. Thanks Emi, its on my desk and I smile every time I see it. Cheers. 

    Monday
    23Nov2009

    Things...

    Things That Make Me Smile:

    1. Chatting in real time with Emi while watching HIMYM. Happy Slapsgiving Emi!

    2. My sister.

    3. Finishing my pop culture paper early.

    4. That feeling when you bury yourself under your covers just before sleep and take a deep breath and let the warmth take over your entire body. 

    5. Friends who bake cakes for you and buy you kickass DSi games. 

     

    Things That Make Me Frown:

    1. November Essays

    2. December Essays/Exams

    3. Work

    4. Life not going the way you expect it to go.

    5. My clothing. I need some new clothing, everything I wear is predictable and old and tired. Ugh. 

    Monday
    09Nov2009

    Ok folks. I've been feeling sorry for myself for far too long the past few weeks. If I am going to enjoy the rest of this season then I need to stop doing that and just smile more. I know it won't be easy but fuck it, 'IT IS WHAT IT IS'. 

    If I get in a funk and you're around me, remind me about people who lived in East Germany or the Jews who died in the holocaust or something like that. Need to learn my ass that life is what I make out of it and I'm tired of feeling like shit. 

    The past two months have been hell but I'm going to try to take each day and find something good about it. Starting with the fact that I'm alive and that sure beats death any day of the week. 

    Love to all my homeys and bitches!

    Thursday
    29Oct2009

    The past month has been stressful. I have to remind myself that I have many wonderful people in my life that support me and love me. Thanks to all those who have been patient with me and stepped up during one of those life moments where I feel overwhelmed. It's good to have such a strong support group. Cheers. 

    Monday
    19Oct2009

    The only reason I care about the whole 'balloon boy' scandal has not a thing to do with the family or their desire to stand in the media's spotlight. My concern and disgust is located around the fact that the law enforcement and safety officials that spent all this time attempting to locate the boy and rescue him from the balloon could have otherwise been rescuing and saving people that needed such help. I do hope that they are charged and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Pranks are all well and good but when it reaches these levels, it no longer becomes a laughing matter. 

    Friday
    16Oct2009

    On the side of the road today I saw an empty box of 'Tampax'. My first thought was who is going through 'Tampax' in that large a number in a car and also, why toss the box onto the side of the road through a window. Life is strange.